So, nobody ever really engages me in conversation unsolicited...

[xise]

In my experience, your status or perceived social status (yellow!) in the social hierarchy corresponds directly with how often acquaints/causal friends communicate with you.

If you are not ok with this deep down, there's probably also some orange to work upon.

I wouldn't have believed myself a year ago if I talked about as if every concept can be linked back to energy centers, but s*** I totally think its true these days. Energy center concepts are such a useful tool in navigating consciousness.

I only say all this because I've noticed a similar effect as you with regards to random communication, but it contrasts with work friends who go out of their way to include me (cause I own at work ), and I've also noticed that in the past I had trouble accepting the situation, but it was really a lack of self-acceptance in many instances. Things are looking good now though, so its all good!

I never get any random emails, facebook messages, texts or phone calls from anybody. In fact, the last time I did was when I was 12 or 13. Ever since then, my social life went into decline.

98% of the time if I want to talk to people, I have to start the conversation or reply to one that is already ongoing. If I just let my inboxes sit for a month or so, I'll likely find little to nothing. It's like I wasn't even gone

Now, I don't want anyone to start messaging me out of pity. That's not my point. In fact, I'll probably be annoyed by it. This is just a matter of general curiosity. I know many people have this problem.

I just want to know: Are some people just not generally liked for whatever reason or is there a quantifiable factor here for why some people just aren't talked to or engaged?