06-01-2013, 07:51 AM
You will often find that on a subconscious level you and your Guides work together to create an 'optimal learning environment', even if the conscious mind may not necessarily be aware of so. This includes the 'outer' social context, and the personality configuration of the individual in question in order to not detract/distract from that which may prove opportunistic. Seemingly random coincidences such as a Friend meaning to email you to catch up, but got distracted at that exact time can be the work of 'external' influences, if the potential is there to lead one in a situation not of their path.
This is but one causal mechanism, and may not necessarily be applicable to yourself. As Eternal stated, it is possible that at some deep core part of your being you prefer to be left alone at this time, and any 'insecurities' are merely the Ego personality structure comparing it's current status to that which it has been programmed it must strive towards (Social dominance, say). Independent seeking is an important part of evolution for the psyche, perhaps even necessary, as can be seen from the 'Hermit' archetype in the Tarot.
This is but one causal mechanism, and may not necessarily be applicable to yourself. As Eternal stated, it is possible that at some deep core part of your being you prefer to be left alone at this time, and any 'insecurities' are merely the Ego personality structure comparing it's current status to that which it has been programmed it must strive towards (Social dominance, say). Independent seeking is an important part of evolution for the psyche, perhaps even necessary, as can be seen from the 'Hermit' archetype in the Tarot.
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