Unity comes from sweat and tears in this reality.

[AnthroHeart]

I agree with sweat and tears, and much confusion. I am often confused about how to act, and it makes me act inappropriately at times. Then I feel terrible afterwards. Darn this veil of confusion.

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Then, as you examine your response with catalyst, if a perfectly balanced response presents itself take it. But if you are left with two less than balanced responses, which is often the reality in 3d, take the one the moves you closer a balanced state.

This is often hard for me to do. The other day my dog scratched me in the eye when he was playing and my automatic reflex was to kick him and hold him down. I felt really bad after that, but he scratched me pretty good. I don't know how to examine these automatic reflexes or choices. It's like I don't care, when I really do care for him. I've since made it up with lots of hugs, but I can't help but still feel bad over it.