Regardless of what zenny's intent is, or what you perceive his intent is, you always have a choice of interpreting catalyst as positive or negative;
As a chance for positivity and acceptance (of all except accepting of control over you), or to see it as a chance for negativity and separation and control (separation/control of your own experience via rejection).
Even if you see something as an attack, it's also catalyst in that it's a shadow mirror of something you haven't yet fully accepted (it is hard to accept those you perceive to be mean or whatever other term for something disliked, but yet that is the path of positivity).
That being said, doing this does sometimes require all parties to step back, take a deep breath, and let the things process. It's something I am still learning to do! And zenny, it wouldn't kill you to put a little bit more sugar into your words!!
As a chance for positivity and acceptance (of all except accepting of control over you), or to see it as a chance for negativity and separation and control (separation/control of your own experience via rejection).
Even if you see something as an attack, it's also catalyst in that it's a shadow mirror of something you haven't yet fully accepted (it is hard to accept those you perceive to be mean or whatever other term for something disliked, but yet that is the path of positivity).
That being said, doing this does sometimes require all parties to step back, take a deep breath, and let the things process. It's something I am still learning to do! And zenny, it wouldn't kill you to put a little bit more sugar into your words!!