08-15-2013, 12:25 PM
(08-15-2013, 05:11 AM)BrownEye Wrote: I am curious what the very first thought/emotion is. I don't mean to offend, there should be a buffer if she guesses it is blunt humor, in response to the thread itself. But there may be a 'standard' reaction to either the words or the fact that it came from a guy. Would there be a different initial reaction if it came from a girl? Is it a reaction to immature males? Or is there a history?
Yeah I knew you were trying to gauge reaction. Old-school gestalt therapy do similar things, elicit reaction to work with them in the moment. Altho helpful to some, there's a lot to think about in terms of free will and power-differential between person who elicits reaction and person who experiences reaction.