Mental equilibrium while dealing with the paranormal...

[Hototo]

I thought all agreements regarding contact were made previous to incarnation?

See thats where it gets to the "5th and 6th density wisdom have no use for 4th density creatures" part.

Where if you are trying to harvest to the 4th density then yes, they were made "previous to incarnation" and your line of thinking makes 100% sense and can be followed, aka:

"I ask for an alien contact and they pick it up because I have said before becoming of this body that I will allow alien contacts."

However. When perceived from 5th or 6th density perspective, it makes no sense because you've always only "been this body" and your belief in things like the quarantine and such actually make them happen by only allowing certain individuals into your societal construct.

So. If you are trying to "harvest" from 3rd density (my life is a chemical construct based on my parents + food) to 4th density through "yay aliens contacted me" or some variant there of, it makes perfect sense that you would first pick a societal surrounding in which no aliens are present, and then use the "yay, speciality of contact" motivation to create a charge that propels you to actual 4th D (Service either to self by using rarity of possibility or other self by pretty much the same but accepting its illusionary nature.)

But if you are trying to or working with 5th or 6th density catalyst then the above makes no sense and is in fact counter intuitive because you live moment by moment knowing that you create the emotions/surroundings you see simply to feed a curiosity about the current situation and your actual source of curiosity/question may not ever be truly answered if the conditions are altered, even though you could alter them at any time.

From the first perspective, the seeing of aliens can be a "yay" moment and can lead to a wonderful adventure.

From the second perspective, the seeing of aliens can indicate a serious "failure" in your societal processing systems that hold you to the 3rd density illusion of things like family, friends, relatives, houses, planets, recycling and so forth. For more on why the seeing of aliens can be hazardous especially in the 2nd perspective I recommend http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Childhood's_End

Edit: Felt I should add a bit more to return better to your original question NA.

So depending on the perspective I take to my existence I may or may not truly be an alien to you. From that, what are you truly talking to? Because in a way I am just a point of light radiating outwards the current state of existence I wish to radiate. Much like a instrument radiating a tune to a song. I can radiate, without difficulty, the tune of the alien and believe it to be as true as my belief now that I am not radiating the alien. From that I can talk to you as if I am an alien or as If I am a human, but if I am in my human state and someone walks up to me and randomly announces that they are an alien, I tend to get anxious and desirous of moving away from said person due to perceived inability by them to associate normally and not only through the mask of the alien. However, I have no idea how others perceive interactions with "aliens." To me, they feel like a failure in my ability to find sufficiently creative people around me, as we are all aliens by default.

So emotional fluff aside. Depending on the density the speed and depth of motions can either be too exhaustingly rapid or too sluggishly slow. Too much time in either tends to exhaust.