The Dismantling of the Approval/Disapproval Mechanism

[Rhayader]

Very nicely put penlum. This is something I too have been thinking a lot about recently. I have found it useful to think in terms that everything has an antithesis, and by understanding that and the spectrum in between yields far greater choice, or reactivity. This is why i've rarely gotten into arguements since I nearly always see and respect both sides, it becomes pointless. It also leads me to being susceptible to great depths of despair and heights of joy as well as indifference. So in that sense to avoid some of that fluctuation would indeed be as you say, to seek love for each moment.