10-29-2013, 10:47 AM
I'm learning alot from interacting and raising Tesla. For me she's the best example of living in the moment, so when I feel anxious or lonely I just look at her and do as she does; take a deep breath and relax. Or when she's chewing on the stereo wires, I take a second/breath to center myself before I pick her up. If it's not working I'll set her aside for a few minutes to gather myself and we'll just start over. When we're playing around and I'm not really 'there' she lets me know straight away (claw claw). We've had a very rough start, I was convinced that I couldn't love her and that she deserved someone who would happily take care of her. After talking with a few people and lots of tears we're doing quite well at the moment.