Dealing with devastating separation.

[Jade]

Oh dear anagogy, I have felt this pain numerous times. I have been a serial monogamist basically since age 13, and more often than not I was the one dumped, and it's almost always devastating. Let me see what I can well up that may help.

Firstly, it is probably helpful to think about what karma is being released. Do you think this has anything to do with a past life with her? (obviously probably yes) Or maybe it could just be ascension related dissolution? The "outside" context might be good to consider since it was so abrupt and layered in secrecy.

I went through several of "the one"s before I came upon my true "one", and it was never so obvious as it was when I met my husband. Every relationship I'd had before him specifically prepared me for my relationship with him, somehow. Every difficulty or major theme was able to be quickly integrated and processed because I'd prepared myself many times over for what it would be like to meet and be together.

Regardless, separation is only possible in 3D, and romantic loss is one of the sharpest most devastating pains (the ashen soul and absent heart indeed). As my ex at 19 who left me for a 15 year old while I was out of the country would say quoting his favorite movie, "The sweet isn't as sweet without the sour."

Whatever the outcome, for certain you are making room for more love, whether it be for yourself, or a new partner, or both. I'd recommend taking these dark times to express yourself in whatever artistic medium you usually do, as it can be so satisfactory.

Sending lots of love your way!