About my mother: Help.

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You have to look at the overall chart to assess relationships between parents in astrology (i.e., sun sign astrology only tells us <10% of the story… make that about 1%).

Melissa - I have major blue ray issues w/ my mother too. Sometimes we communicate and connect great and sometimes it explodes due to holding things in then blowing up later. She gets rigid about certain things & massively projects onto me. I find myself projecting back at her thru anger. Think this last episode she was a bit tipsy and blowing off steam bc she was repressing some negative emotion… but we went all out. So I wrote her a email about how I feel and what I think about the episode, read it several times, then deleted it. Felt better even if she doesn't really know how I feel and think. At least I came to an understanding of self & of her, and why we acted the way we acted to each other. We actually haven't talked about this episode to put some closure (yep blue ray issue again) but down the road we sure will talk about this episode, if the patterns in the relationship is constant.