(05-09-2010, 01:23 PM)renyrat Wrote: Two months ago we were bombarded with a negative energy. Without getting into too many details, my son had a "girlfriend" for barely 2 months 2 years ago, she has filed sexual assault charges against him, totally out of the blue.
How do we deal with this? How do we remain positive?
So he has not had contact with her in nearly two years and then BAM?
How old was your son at the time. I am guessing 17.
How old was the girl at the time?
When you said "she filed charges" has your son been arrested?
Has the State Attorney decided to prosicute?
State laws varry and sadly in some cases the most absurd circumstances follow through with insane results under one particular states laws that could ever happen in another state.
As for how to remain positive. In my experience as long as your caught up in the court system your going to be carrying a lead ball and chain and until it is over all you can do is tread water. The whole judicial process is geared towards causing the accused mental illness, anguish, and stress and it is contagious to anyone who cares about them.
Odds are it seems right now that it is far worse than it will turn out to be when it is all over. The best part is it will eventually be over and you can begin to heal and put it behind you.
Deep breathing exorcises and anything else that helps in relieving stress would be my best advice without knowing more.