In a quandary

[gerriclem13]

Yeah I know him for the man he could be, not the "poor me" he is right now, I am not so sure that he isn't thinking that this will keep us together, but it is not going to, I really need him to drop the attitude now and, as they say, man up. Because he is not in the least bit attractive to me now, and I am beginning to not feel sorry for him. We are both in a situation, I was put out of my home as victim of the hurricane Sandy, which foreclosed, I went the route of letting the Red Cross advise me and wound up in a shelter. It isn't much but it is a step in the right direction. We were living together at the time, and instead of standing with me, which means we would have been together, he packed up and moved to his daughter's where he gets no respect from either her or his grands. Now he is regretting his move and wants me to help him.
I really don't want to be with him because soon after I got by myself I was led to the Ra material and am discovering what my path is, not to mention a new found freedom and a love for the metaphysical that he does not accept. He is pushing me to help him get out of where he is, and I will take him on the path that I was led. but I only feel I can go so far and then I must let him go in order for him to progress.