Singles / Dating

[Rusalka]

amen, ye it is so!
More snuggling, less fighting!
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heh, yeah!

"Just thought it was funny by some oddity."

It IS funny in a bittersweet way. Life is a cosmic joke after all...

I almost almost gave up on myself as a person who can have a fulfilling and love-filled relationship after that experience. Dating didn't work for me so I thought I was not good enough or too weird.

But the failures at dating don't happen us because we are not good enough but because we are different. Perhaps a little more naive, perhaps a little more sensitive.

And then we have a totally different value system. I just cannot get fully involved in all this mill of visiting family, little wars, changing cars and houses and boasting about how much we spent on our honeymoon. It all seems like a bad computer game that bores me to tears.

But give me someone with high integrity who wants that famed full fusion and who wants to grow as a person and whose goal is rather to open his heart with courage than to double his bank account. Someone who sees beauty in nature and the magic. Who travels to higher realms and won't be put off when I tell him about my visions. Someone who will share my need to do an odd ritual to commune with Nature and for whom lovemaking will be a way to fuse with the Creator rather than assert his male dominance and "score".

That would be a different conversation :-) It might even be FUN :-))

(now, people, stop writing exciting stuff as I have to WORK!!)