05-25-2010, 02:33 PM
I see what you're saying Norral. Can you tell more about the sensation hitting you between the shoulders? I don't know that one. I usually get affected on the larger chakras. The heart, the stomach the throat, very occasionally the sex chakra. Fortunately the last one doesn't trigger often. Usually it's the heart and after that the stomach.
Realize please that sensing emotions and responding to them are two different things. Most people consider them automatic and one and the same. But this is not the case. You have this partly when you were sobbing. But remaining in control and able to act effectively is like 80% of the business. And there's two ways of going about it, first you could repress. But that locks the energy and causes blockages. It's installing dikes with the risk of them bursting. Secondly, you can feel and allow without changing your behavior. You may see it on the outside, but it really doesn't bother people as long as you're clearly in control.
I know a beautiful 70 something year old woman who was talking at a certain moment about her ex husband who was not the nicest person. She was crying and people started to comfort her. And she pushed them away saying I feel, but I don't need to be comforted because I am in control. That was a lesson to me.
I hope all is well with you and your loved ones now.
Realize please that sensing emotions and responding to them are two different things. Most people consider them automatic and one and the same. But this is not the case. You have this partly when you were sobbing. But remaining in control and able to act effectively is like 80% of the business. And there's two ways of going about it, first you could repress. But that locks the energy and causes blockages. It's installing dikes with the risk of them bursting. Secondly, you can feel and allow without changing your behavior. You may see it on the outside, but it really doesn't bother people as long as you're clearly in control.
I know a beautiful 70 something year old woman who was talking at a certain moment about her ex husband who was not the nicest person. She was crying and people started to comfort her. And she pushed them away saying I feel, but I don't need to be comforted because I am in control. That was a lesson to me.
I hope all is well with you and your loved ones now.