Gender across incarnations

[Melissa]

Don't you think that pointing at social norms is also a sign of seperation? Androgynous features are quite common these days but to me you're clearly a male, perhaps you lean towards a feminine essence but why would you reject that? I do see it as rejection because eventhough you may not be fond of having a gender, I don't think it's healthy or possible to deny that obvious feature as part of your human self.