"The experience of no need to find the necessary emolument."

[Ankh]

Would this discussion on Adonai even have started if he was the female in the marriage? An interesting question to ponder..

I don't care which gender pays for which. My point was that Adonai said that he has a balanced acceptance of a certain catalyst, but it turned out that he is not exposed to this catalyst. An acceptance of any catalyst is to experience it, and then finding an inner balance. Then this discussion did go astray indeed. Adonai said that money means nothing to him. Well, that's easy to say when someone else is paying for you! My point here is again, not about genders, but that saying "I don't like this money system", and yet still living *within* this system (by having someone else to pay for everything for you), which in my eyes is a hypocracy.