"The experience of no need to find the necessary emolument."

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I wouldn't mind having a partner who agrees to participate equally in the relationship by taking a specific role for the family, not necessarily going out there to work. That said, I would agree if the decision is due to the partners' commitment to chosen role, it is highly fulfilling & works for the family, fulfillment of responsibilities, and that it's not a way to avoid going out into the world bc partner doesn't sit well with the way the world works. Would want someone to do things that aligns with someone's highest potential, even if we're veiled from that potential (best guess). Then carefully thinking thru the practical stuff like how the family is going to eat and be housed.

Seems people are challenging you, Adonai, because you're a person w/ great potential with your intelligence and charm and thirst for learning. It's a great acknowledgment. They seem to be highlighting some trigger issues like authority, social expectations, your notion of sacrifice, conformity, being assimilated by borgs. Resistance is futile. I do understand that vervex believes in your potential and that is pretty amazing to have such faith in a person. I totally look forward to the development of you guys, the first marriage on b4th lol. Hope your heart & mind is open to potentials to understanding these catalysts. That was the original point when we went off-topic in Cog Dis.

lol re: drama queen archetype I fit that bill being a difficult diva