How I interpret one of my life's most major catalyst...

[reeay]

It's rather perplexing and tricky when responding to you, Adonai. You speak in absolutes and appear very set in your perspectives; you share your principles of how people should live like it's an absolute, and then ask for others to be discerning (contradiction). So then the response swings to the other side of the spectrum in reaction to your absolutist perspective. We all join in with you, just voicing the antithetical perspective.

Discussions ensue and people start analyzing your character or suggest courses of action for you - and that can be painful bc it may seem like it's degradation or a judgment upon someone's character and capabilities. It's natural to see one's philosophies as part of one's personal distortions, so discussions might get personal.

So we are all bozos in the same bus because we're dancing to the same tune here. Thread after thread we repeat this dynamic.

It's just perplexing too that am not sure you are really believing your absolutist perspective here or if you are playing your archetype 23, devil's advocate. As much as this can be a service so people can learn, we are obviously running in circles time and time again. If devil's advocate is what you are doing it's chaotic. Buuut if people want to participate it's not a problem. By all means continue the game.