(06-08-2014, 12:07 PM)Phoenix Wrote: I'm pretty sure that sexual desire is just not relevant. Even a member of the target gender is sexually attractive, it still isn't relevant. Because you have to look at the soul.
You don't "have" to do anything. Free will governs. If you truly only desire to look at the soul, cool.
For myself, I'd be lying to myself if I said that (and I would be blocking off the red ray I energy I get when looking a lady;that same energy that when guilt free goes to my heart and eventually out of my crown often as I am in gratitude of having that experience). I think appearance is important, but I do value personality more. And I'm totally ok with that part of myself.