08-03-2014, 04:10 PM
This is more like a 10 year old explanation.
When you love someone, you want to help them. You don't want to help them for any reason than because they need help. It feels good to help, but if you do it because it feels good, it's not love.
Sometimes you try to help people but it doesn't help. You meant the very best to happen, but it just got messy and complicated. That's because people who need help need a certain kind of help. Not just any kind of help will do. Eventually, after you make lots of mistakes by trying to help people in ways that don't help, you learn what to do and what not to do in many different situations. That's wisdom.
Wisdom can only come from experience because that's how you learn what kind of help people need. You don't have to think about wisdom; it just comes naturally from the lessons you learned about trying to help other people. Love feels like a pull to help in any way possible and wisdom feels like a wall that prevents you from helping in ways you know won't help.
When you love someone, you want to help them. You don't want to help them for any reason than because they need help. It feels good to help, but if you do it because it feels good, it's not love.
Sometimes you try to help people but it doesn't help. You meant the very best to happen, but it just got messy and complicated. That's because people who need help need a certain kind of help. Not just any kind of help will do. Eventually, after you make lots of mistakes by trying to help people in ways that don't help, you learn what to do and what not to do in many different situations. That's wisdom.
Wisdom can only come from experience because that's how you learn what kind of help people need. You don't have to think about wisdom; it just comes naturally from the lessons you learned about trying to help other people. Love feels like a pull to help in any way possible and wisdom feels like a wall that prevents you from helping in ways you know won't help.