What is difference between wisdom and love?

[JustLikeYou]

So I should help only because it's the "right" thing to do and not because it has anything to do with me having a personal interest and passion for the person's well-being that makes me feel good?

You have named two options as if there is no third.

1. Help because it's my duty
2. Help because it makes me feel good.

The third option is what I am trying to pinpoint:

3. Help because I care, not about what I am supposed to do, not about what makes me feel good, but about what is good for you.