What is time and memory to you?

[Monica]

In that case, perhaps we subconsciously add more weight to memories that serve us, i.e. are aligned with our beliefs and goals.

Oh absolutely and not just memories each perception works the same. We have a tendency to see/remember things that prove what we think to be true.

I see memories as snapshots, with those the most emotionally powerful being the ones that are remembered the most vividly. My experience as a Rebirther seemed to support this. I observed many people who couldn't remember a lot of details about their past in general, but remembered very astute details about traumatic, or otherwise emotionally intense, events.