Gary, I completely agree with your post; I believe we are singing the same song, only in a different tune 
Purpose can seem a willful act; however, if it comes from a genuine desire for self-discovery and self-acceptance it can lead one to expand their awareness and discover themselves further. The type of purpose I was cautioning against in my post as you have highlighted and explained very well is indeed conviction which would emerge from self-doubt, pain and fear. In all cases it is a choice of direction, and one should be as aware as possible of where it will take them and what emotions lead them to making this choice in the first place. I believe a lack of self-awareness, especially when self-induced, is what leads people to unhappiness.
I like very much this snippet above. *thumbs up*

Purpose can seem a willful act; however, if it comes from a genuine desire for self-discovery and self-acceptance it can lead one to expand their awareness and discover themselves further. The type of purpose I was cautioning against in my post as you have highlighted and explained very well is indeed conviction which would emerge from self-doubt, pain and fear. In all cases it is a choice of direction, and one should be as aware as possible of where it will take them and what emotions lead them to making this choice in the first place. I believe a lack of self-awareness, especially when self-induced, is what leads people to unhappiness.
Quote:But, that is not the only variety of purpose.That is just one on the more shallow end of the spectrum of experience covered by the word "purpose". I think actual, authentic, real purpose can and does naturally spring from deeper self-knowing, and self-acceptance.
One can have a balanced awareness that no matter in which direction one heads, all is well and nothing is lost, but remain yet aware that they are, indeed, headed in a particular direction, and thus in wisdom make their choices in accordance with that particular purpose.
I like very much this snippet above. *thumbs up*