11-01-2014, 10:46 PM
i feel like 1 day every1 will get to experience exactly what i experience & vise versa. many people that die & come back to life say this is the case. for instance, i think dannion brinkley says it...& i'm pretty sure this guy says it, too:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QOSb3G53HsA
if this is the case then naturally u'll wanna make sure u're not putting others thru hell but also u've gotta make sure u're not putting yourself thru hell. STO gets tricky sometimes bc torturing yourself for others isn't exactly being STO - IMO
sometimes we're forced to choose our own comfort over the comfort of the seemingly other self. the other day i really didn't want to laugh about something bc i knew it would hurt the person's feelings but i simply couldn't hold the laughter in - no matter how hard i tried. this a great example of a time when i was forced to serve myself over the other self
it sounds to me like these people u live w will be in hell w or w/o u. u say, "There is just no real love in them. People either serve a purpose, or are in the way to them. The three of seem to exist in this cycle of anger, manipulation, name calling,...etc. There is always some enemy inside or outside the family, with which to be at war."
u have an opportunity to escape hell. unlike them, u r not trapped
if u take a stand & say u're not moving again, i'm betting they make your life more of a hell than they already do. if u don't make a stand & move then there's a great chance your life will become more of a hell than it already is, since u're happy where u're at & u're certain u'll have no chance of finding peace in any other location. u might make their life much harder, for a while, by bailing - but at least 1 soul would be freed from hell. so my vote is bail
i'm betting, tho', that u go w/ the option to make the stand rather than to try moving 1 more time or bailing. if u do this, my advice to u is to do it by writing a letter & then give them some time to stew before u let them scream at u about it or w/e
good luck
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QOSb3G53HsA
if this is the case then naturally u'll wanna make sure u're not putting others thru hell but also u've gotta make sure u're not putting yourself thru hell. STO gets tricky sometimes bc torturing yourself for others isn't exactly being STO - IMO
sometimes we're forced to choose our own comfort over the comfort of the seemingly other self. the other day i really didn't want to laugh about something bc i knew it would hurt the person's feelings but i simply couldn't hold the laughter in - no matter how hard i tried. this a great example of a time when i was forced to serve myself over the other self
it sounds to me like these people u live w will be in hell w or w/o u. u say, "There is just no real love in them. People either serve a purpose, or are in the way to them. The three of seem to exist in this cycle of anger, manipulation, name calling,...etc. There is always some enemy inside or outside the family, with which to be at war."
u have an opportunity to escape hell. unlike them, u r not trapped
if u take a stand & say u're not moving again, i'm betting they make your life more of a hell than they already do. if u don't make a stand & move then there's a great chance your life will become more of a hell than it already is, since u're happy where u're at & u're certain u'll have no chance of finding peace in any other location. u might make their life much harder, for a while, by bailing - but at least 1 soul would be freed from hell. so my vote is bail
i'm betting, tho', that u go w/ the option to make the stand rather than to try moving 1 more time or bailing. if u do this, my advice to u is to do it by writing a letter & then give them some time to stew before u let them scream at u about it or w/e
good luck
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