Hey m,
Yes, it sure sounds like a minefield. I think boundaries and limits are really important in healthy relationships. If you are being a doormat and others are walking on you, it is not healthy for any of you.
I think in the struggle of 3D we are mired in red/ orange/ yellow ray power struggles. There comes a point, I think, to decide to remain strong within yourself and your own energy, and say "I am not being pulled into the vortex" that other-selves are creating. I think that is coming from a place of love.
It sounds like you are being faced with some very challenging decisions right now. There is not a right or wrong answer as far as what is STO. It is loving to continue to support and be a part of a family that you care about and want to be a part of. It is loving to decide you don't need to be sucked into the drama anymore and you are happy staying where you are.
I think that if you choose to go along, counseling or support for working out some of the drama is warranted. People generally need help to work out their issues, a mediator of some sort, counselor. I think now it is more important than ever , with the intensity of energy we are experiencing, the push to expand in consciousness, and to become more aware of 4D energy. People will need help and assistance, because so many are not aware of what the shift is all about.
Of course you have grown. But until the whole world is completely 4D, there is work , growth and evolution to do, and we are here to do it. That is how the oneness comes in, the individual work we do adds to the whole. Our personal evolution will continue until we have reached our goal, that's a pretty long time! We are individually each walking our own path, a part of a whole that is evolving together.
I think the confusion can be alleviated by keeping the goal in mind, a new world/ 4D. We can decide in each moment, "Does this serve the emerging new world? " "What will bring me closer to my goal?"
If there is a strong foundation of love in your family and good communication with Michelle, it is workable, but boundaries are imperative.
Yes, it sure sounds like a minefield. I think boundaries and limits are really important in healthy relationships. If you are being a doormat and others are walking on you, it is not healthy for any of you.
I think in the struggle of 3D we are mired in red/ orange/ yellow ray power struggles. There comes a point, I think, to decide to remain strong within yourself and your own energy, and say "I am not being pulled into the vortex" that other-selves are creating. I think that is coming from a place of love.
It sounds like you are being faced with some very challenging decisions right now. There is not a right or wrong answer as far as what is STO. It is loving to continue to support and be a part of a family that you care about and want to be a part of. It is loving to decide you don't need to be sucked into the drama anymore and you are happy staying where you are.
I think that if you choose to go along, counseling or support for working out some of the drama is warranted. People generally need help to work out their issues, a mediator of some sort, counselor. I think now it is more important than ever , with the intensity of energy we are experiencing, the push to expand in consciousness, and to become more aware of 4D energy. People will need help and assistance, because so many are not aware of what the shift is all about.
Quote:I thought I had grown so much since my Awakening, and discovering the Law of One. Now I fear I haven't grown at all.
And to add to the confusion, I'm telling all of you this, with the full understanding that there is only One of Us here!! We are all One. That Michele, her kids, and I are the same being.
However, understanding this concept and being able to apply it, are very different things. In fact in some situations,..... since discovering and attempting to live by the Law of One,....it has become more confusing. I have become very indecisive,...always over-thinking my motives.
I'm sure there are many among us who have found this uptake of catalyst take place during the early years of Law of One/Spiritual workings.
Of course you have grown. But until the whole world is completely 4D, there is work , growth and evolution to do, and we are here to do it. That is how the oneness comes in, the individual work we do adds to the whole. Our personal evolution will continue until we have reached our goal, that's a pretty long time! We are individually each walking our own path, a part of a whole that is evolving together.
I think the confusion can be alleviated by keeping the goal in mind, a new world/ 4D. We can decide in each moment, "Does this serve the emerging new world? " "What will bring me closer to my goal?"
If there is a strong foundation of love in your family and good communication with Michelle, it is workable, but boundaries are imperative.
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