12-10-2014, 01:57 PM
(12-09-2014, 10:48 PM)Stranger Wrote: Matt1, what do you think has stood in the way of your finding relationships? And if I may ask, how old are you?
24.
I am not really sure, i guess to a certain degree when i was younger it was mostly the popular people who were good at sports and met the social standard of attractiveness that had relationships, those who did outside of this crowd got mocked, this was i guess some reason of difficulty during the school years. In all honestly i am mostly a quiet and reversed person who i don't think many people noticed, although i have become more assertive these days. For a while i just put it down to the fact that i wasn't popular or met the ideal of attractiveness. Most people have the idea of not settling for anything less than prefect else they would become more of an outcast socially. I guess i thought i had to become something i was not if i was to have any hope in finding someone.
However the days of School are over now and i have gotten over that type of thinking a while ago but nothing happening yet. Although i am happy and centered by myself i feel that it is a needed experience now to have.