Looking forward to 50 shades of green

[Bluebell]

i think as u gain different views as a part of a social memory complex u might change ur mind about BDSM. it can be amazing when truly loving. loving BDSM is about the dom taking care of the sub, & the sub giving everything to the dom. it's healing because it fills a need in both sides, bringing balance. for example a parent losing a child in a previous life might have a need to take care, nurture & control. another soul might have been an orphan. meeting another w opposite need & forming a mutually beneficial relationship is wonderful.

the one who has true control is the sub. the sub willingly gives everything heart&soul to their dom because there's trust. this allows the fall, allowing complete trust, love & acceptance of everything the dom decides. but the dom does everything FOR the sub. sometimes it's unpleasant but it's beneficial & loving. like a parent disciplining a child. the dom is honored by the trust & does their best to respect it & serve the needs of the sub.

the safeword makes it safe for both.

this is a beautiful path the creator has dreamed into existence. if u haven't truly experienced it from either side u can't judge it. also, as a self-identified sub i'd appreciate that 50 shades of *LOL* not be used as ammo against true BDSM.