03-20-2009, 08:43 PM
Yes, I too have so much anger from my childhood. 90%+ of the memories are genuinely destructive. And there is so much energy one can convert to positivity, to simply see the polarity of them, and extract the love.
"She was disgusting" -> "No, I only decided for myself that she was, then I can also decide that she was not."
If people become angry at me, then I try to hear them out without objection. Often, they only have the need to vent it, and if you do not reflect the anger back and simply meet with love they will quickly realise their folly in being angry. Such a simply action, turning another from turmoil to peace. So wonderful..
"She was disgusting" -> "No, I only decided for myself that she was, then I can also decide that she was not."
If people become angry at me, then I try to hear them out without objection. Often, they only have the need to vent it, and if you do not reflect the anger back and simply meet with love they will quickly realise their folly in being angry. Such a simply action, turning another from turmoil to peace. So wonderful..