confusing relationships

[Raz]

I feel that when we start to think we know a person in our life, there is a tendency in our current frame of mind to have a deeper focus on the relationship with our thoughts about a person rather than the being itself. everything is touching everything; we are all in fact, in a very intimate fundamental relationship regardless of what we think of one and another. So there is a sense of disconnection when we substitute our projections with the people in our life. We no longer feel the flow of them; we statically know them. Regardless if we think we know them in a positive or negative way it turns the focus of our relationship with them to the fabricated memory of experience with them. Yes there is a level of practicality in knowing what patterns someone is prone to lead. But it is not on the level of practicality that we really feel connected to each other...