06-19-2015, 12:54 AM
I struggle with the same things too.
:-/
For me, I have to take two deep breaths before saying/writing anything when I can feel the energy within start to stir. I also know that I have to force myself to leave a situation in person if the tension is such that I know I'll say something that is hurtful.
Self-awareness has been the key for me - I've learned to recognize the physical signs in my body and then I've adopted actions to mitigate the potential negative outcomes.
:-/
For me, I have to take two deep breaths before saying/writing anything when I can feel the energy within start to stir. I also know that I have to force myself to leave a situation in person if the tension is such that I know I'll say something that is hurtful.
Self-awareness has been the key for me - I've learned to recognize the physical signs in my body and then I've adopted actions to mitigate the potential negative outcomes.
