How we make 'others' feel

[Aion]

I guess just to speak to how some of this makes me feel, I feel like my way of expressing myself might be looked down upon simply because I may not be as familiar or comfortable with 'sensitive' ways of speaking and to feel like I am therefore being less oriented towards service because of that feels kind of unfair. Like people who are 'obviously' being 'compassionate' automatically get the head nod but I have to prove my own compassion by mimicing the communication methods of those who are apparently 'more compassionate'?

The whole thing just seems presumptuous and derogative...