07-08-2015, 03:38 PM
Sure our perception is influenced by our distortion, which over our life experience can become crystalized. It's lovely to remind our brothers and sisters that love is all around and this is a fuzzy community. In part I agree. A sister is opening up and sharing her catalyst, saying she does't feel love and support, that she was viewing certain actions as being done personally. Sure, we can assure her that she is loved and care for and that it was a misunderstanding. When someone is flooding out their feelings, maybe they want to also be understood instead of just say her comments are too generalized or that you don't experience this forum as she does, etc.,. Why did Splash think what she think, feel what she feels? Her reasons for her experience is as valid as others' experience of this forum, and vice-a-versa.