07-19-2015, 10:33 AM
Hello Dear Jeremy,
Whenever You would like to express honest opinion about/to Other-Self, please offer both “positive” and “negative” feedback. It is also pretty good training for the Self – to always recognize within Other-Self “positiveness” – even if Other-Self seems to be “totally negative”.
An Example: (Imaginary Being “Laura”)
1.
Laura, I think that You are very well organized and I appreciate sharpness of your Mind. However, I would like to suggest/point out/share with You my Thoughts regarding your approach to Other-Selves, which seems to me to be quite cruel. Do You know what may be the source of such attitude within You?
- or to change “Judgement” into “expression of One’s Feelings:
2.
I like You Laura, but at the same time it’s unsettling for me how sometimes You are treating Other-Selves
- etc. To offer information that is not “one-sided”. I find this method of communication to be quite effective.
Hello Dear Plenum,
Lately I was meditating and visualizing each “Energy Center” with assigned “proper color” and … my Orange Ray was the only one that seems to be empty. In case of all others I effortlessly saw bright colors of each Ray, but in the case of Orange-One, even when I tried to “filled it” with the color with my will, I was unable to visualize effect of “radiating”. It was more like an “empty hole”.
It is worrisome for me and I’m uncertain how to proceed. I would be grateful for some advice.
All I have Best in me for You
(07-16-2015, 09:25 PM)Jeremy Wrote: So I'm grappling with this concept that is about as foreign to me as high level physics. I spoke with Austin via pm about how to change my approach when it came to communication and he noted how Carla had a wonderful ability to being honest but worded it in such a way, that it came off as loving rather than igniting or reinforcing ones own emotional overreactions.
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Whenever You would like to express honest opinion about/to Other-Self, please offer both “positive” and “negative” feedback. It is also pretty good training for the Self – to always recognize within Other-Self “positiveness” – even if Other-Self seems to be “totally negative”.
An Example: (Imaginary Being “Laura”)
1.
Laura, I think that You are very well organized and I appreciate sharpness of your Mind. However, I would like to suggest/point out/share with You my Thoughts regarding your approach to Other-Selves, which seems to me to be quite cruel. Do You know what may be the source of such attitude within You?
- or to change “Judgement” into “expression of One’s Feelings:
2.
I like You Laura, but at the same time it’s unsettling for me how sometimes You are treating Other-Selves
- etc. To offer information that is not “one-sided”. I find this method of communication to be quite effective.
(07-18-2015, 09:01 PM)Bring4th_Plenum Wrote:(07-18-2015, 08:27 PM)Farseer Wrote: I have some pretty deep-rooted self-hatred I still haven't quite balanced.
self-hatred usually sits in the orange ray. Although just being able to localise it isn't always helpful.
but it's to do with one's relationship with the incarnate personality, and the various ways of relating to one's own desires (are these desires ok or not to have, etc etc).
Hello Dear Plenum,
Lately I was meditating and visualizing each “Energy Center” with assigned “proper color” and … my Orange Ray was the only one that seems to be empty. In case of all others I effortlessly saw bright colors of each Ray, but in the case of Orange-One, even when I tried to “filled it” with the color with my will, I was unable to visualize effect of “radiating”. It was more like an “empty hole”.
It is worrisome for me and I’m uncertain how to proceed. I would be grateful for some advice.
All I have Best in me for You