simplifying STO and STS

[upensmoke]

I have always viewed STO and STS in a very simple manner of "Treat others How you would like to be treated." or "do onto others as you would want done onto yourself." To elaborate a STO entity would treat otherselfs in the same manner that they would like to be treated, while a STS entity would disregard such a notion thinking its ok to treat an other-self in a manner that they wouldn't want to be treated in. 

My reasoning is that by treating others the same way you would like to be treated is the equivalent of practicing oneness with otherselfs. by treating other how you would treat yourself, you view otherselfs as no different then yourself. There is no separation of self. when you don't treat otherselfs as yourself there is a disconnect or separation of self. You will begin to view otherselfs as less then to yourself, and will eventually begin to justify the use of them for your own benefit regardless of the fact that you would be treating them worse then how you would like to be treated yourself. you will create a separation. 

please understand when i say separation, it does not imply that the being is unaware of the unity in all things and love, but rather it is aware of the unity of all things and love, but it choose to exist separate of it. the being chooses that it is not necessary to be connected  

I invite my fellow light seekers to add to what i post or to pick apart what they feel is wrong with my view. i'm interested in how others respond to my interpretation. does this vibe with you? do you disagree? half and half? all thoughts and opinions are welcome.