Well, Ra says the Choice in 3D is the "axis upon which Creation turns", so I think the rest of Creation is reacting to the game that is occurring in 3D.
I think this is ultimately why polarity is said to not matter, because the higher densities need the bad guys to muck things up so that they can come in and be the heroes. All is equal because all is necessary. We set up our own "game" within this system of rules to see what we can do as "individual" sparks of the Creator (of course ironically with lots of help from unseen buddies). But, yes, I think it is healthy to see it all as a form of "play" and not as a form of "work".
I think this is ultimately why polarity is said to not matter, because the higher densities need the bad guys to muck things up so that they can come in and be the heroes. All is equal because all is necessary. We set up our own "game" within this system of rules to see what we can do as "individual" sparks of the Creator (of course ironically with lots of help from unseen buddies). But, yes, I think it is healthy to see it all as a form of "play" and not as a form of "work".