Selective empathy

[Night Owl]

How do you think your family would feel like if you were about to die and you would have told them not to come because you don't need emotional support?

Why is that any of my concern? 

Ya see,  family doesn't mean the same to me as it does most. This famialial bond based upon genetic similarities matters not to me. I don't see a differentiation between this perceived family bond and a bond betwixt an other self.  These bonds are simply a deluded illusions of unity that simply transcends all regardless of blood

It matters not because they are familly. It matters because they love you.

Again,  why is that any of my concern? Why does their perceived bond that they inconceivably have have any impact upon me? 

It is of your girlfriend's concern to react to how you love her?