01-05-2016, 11:13 PM
In fact all I'm saying is if you are trying to be STO, which I guess you imply, why would you see a problem in giving comfort to your mom? I would have had the same thoughts as you did that needing some sort comforting words is useless but I would also recognize that not doing so would hurt her feelings. That it is of concerns to me is just a matter of choosing if I want to open my heart or not. And now that she did ask you I guess you cannot deny it will hurt her feelings if you do not attend. The choice is still yours to make. I'm not attacking you or anything just giving you some different perspectives.