02-20-2016, 05:03 PM
Or so you have convinced yourself. It's not the opening that causes what you do not desire, it is the movement of the pain and suffering that holds it closed that you fear, and it is facing these things directly that you believe needs to be avoided. Yet, you are really doing a disservice by not being honest with yourself and with the other.
The fear of suffering is a greater and more permanent suffering than suffering itself for then you hold that suffering to yourself and never allow yourself to move through it. Avoiding pain to avoid pain is a cycle of insanity in which nothing is resolved.
What is 'undesired' isn't always necessarily bad or negativity and to be released from suffering means accepting it for what it is, rather than trying to push it away in comfort.
No offence meant, but maybe you /don't/ know what the situation will turn in to but you have so convinced yourself of your fear that you put energy in to your fears and so manifest it in your life as these undesirable situations?
Maybe you need to let yourself go in to that fear a bit.
The fear of suffering is a greater and more permanent suffering than suffering itself for then you hold that suffering to yourself and never allow yourself to move through it. Avoiding pain to avoid pain is a cycle of insanity in which nothing is resolved.
What is 'undesired' isn't always necessarily bad or negativity and to be released from suffering means accepting it for what it is, rather than trying to push it away in comfort.
No offence meant, but maybe you /don't/ know what the situation will turn in to but you have so convinced yourself of your fear that you put energy in to your fears and so manifest it in your life as these undesirable situations?
Maybe you need to let yourself go in to that fear a bit.