Harvesting Negative

[Night Owl]

Reading that sentence today I admit it makes no sense to me either and I realize how far from what I meant it really is. While I mean to seek the responsible way to deal with that and you understood the exact opposite my sentence is clearly messed up. I didn't mean not to involve the self in the work that has to be done. I was basically asking if there is a way to work those energies responsibly without creating attachment between me and the other person or if that requires me to strenghten a connection I have felt that I must not so far. This a positive intention. If I come across somebody who's basically bleeding energy, I want to be able to give them back. This is an intention of responsability.

I am basically trying not to create a problem where I think attachment is problematic for the other because I cannot send back the same energy as the other is sending to me and hoping that I send back to them. I'm not trying to flee from responsability in fact I'm wondering what is the responsible way to deal with it because so far my way of dealing with it may not have been effective since I see it repeting itself. I want to work on changing what is possible to change to bring more positive energies. I wish this to be possible without creating attachment but if that is not possible I'm not running from it and I will face it if I have to. I open myself up to whatever is better than what I already do. Only good intentions comes out of me.

I just feel so far it is best not to get too close to somebody who's expecting something of me that I cannot give. This is what I meant by not involving the self but I understand how it is really a bad way to express what I meant.