05-14-2016, 05:28 PM
Justlikeyou had me wonder if I may have offended, hurt or bother you in any kind of way. If that is the case please forgive my bluntness. I know I am clumsy in my self expression sometimes and that things are relative. I was very interested in understanding the perspective of someone who finds value in courting but I must admit to myself that I simply don't because I don't want to change what I love. I still am happy that your analogy have helped you understanding yourself and others and that it is valuable to those who can relate. I also never meant to say that you judged me into thinking I was f***** up. That was me! I hope it doesn't harm your thread. I think it has been more useful than you may think consciously. Nothing I have said meant that anybody who can relate to the analogy is lesser in any way. Each has his own path. I recognize wise people when I meet them and don't want to offend your wisdom which I value a lot. Only good intentions.