Courting the maiden

[Jade]

And to answer the big question: Why change anything at all? Because we are here, incarnate in the illusion. We have specific parameters through which we can create. Trial and erroring those parameters is what the third density experience is all about. Yeah you can sit in a cave in 5th density and meditate on wisdom and converse with high density teachers but you aren't, right now you are incarnated into a 3rd density body within this greater third density body illusion, presumably, to act. To change things. To experience the inward growth that leads to a visible outward growth. To watch planet Earth shift from third density to fourth density, and maybe along the way, help a few other incarnate entities along the way reach graduation. Reaching graduation requires absolutely nothing of wisdom. You can teach the starving entity how to fish, but in this context, that's like trying to teach an entity about the densities when they are on the verge of killing their neighbor. You are skipping many lessons for the other entity. This is also why you are correct that "courting the maiden" is not a blanket statement of action, but much more nuanced depending on what entity you are trying to serve. Most likely, they will benefit more from the open-hearted gesture than they would from any attempts at education. You often need triage before you can address the root issue, especially when we are dealing with an analogy as critical as "starving".