Is your significant other awakened?

[APeacefulWarrior]

Just pointing out, you sort of overlooked the possibility of SOs being Wanderers or Dual-Activated or otherwise not pre-Harvest 3D natives. There's tens of millions of such folks out there, at the bare minimum, and likely very many more. There's also more to awakening than just being "unconditionally loving" or "intellectually aware of the unity of creation" anyway. These aren't matters that can really be boiled down to a single binary choice.

Beyond that, though, I don't think it's a good idea for us to get the idea we can go around judging the levels of awakening of the people around us. It's really not that simple - the distortions of 3D are so intense that it basically makes objective evaluation of each other impossible. Ra said this directly in 93.3: "it is quite impossible to judge the polarity of an act or an entity, just as it is impossible to judge the relative goodness of the negative and positive poles of the magnet." There's really no way for us to know with any true certainty how "awake" or "enlightened" anyone else is, much less their potential density or other 'deeper' aspects of their beingness. Misjudging the nature of others very often leads to ineffective service, or worse.

It's noble if someone believes their SO is in need of spiritual help and wish to provide that service... but they should be careful they aren't accidentally starting off by doing them a major disservice.