05-22-2016, 03:40 PM
Yeah, when one person is awakened and the other not, it can definitely be a rubbing point. There has definitely been a lot of friction between my wife and I because of that. I awoke when we were living separately pending a divorce. After I awoke, my behavior improved so much she ended up asking to get back together with me. I said yes because she said the only thing that allowed me to accept her back: she said she loves and accepts me for who I am. After we got back together, I definitely wished she was awake and even pushed a little bit for that. Eventually I gave up on pushing at all. The fact that we both accept each other's beliefs (or lacktherof) has made for a great relationship since then. Occasionally I will get a bit frustrated because I can't even tell her about something because it's too deep into the LOO philosophy, but I have learned to satisfy the need to discuss that stuff here.
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