Night Owl\ Wrote:Anyway the way I see it is that if I started loving the way you do I would probably lose everything I cherish in my life just as you would lose everything that you cherish in your life if you started loving like I do.
This indicates possession, and I believe there is no possession or ownership in love. I also feel that this is one of the primary lessons about love that 3rd density entities are learning now, as far as I can see, and suffering terribly in the process.
"Ah, the knowledge of impermanence
that haunts our days
is their very fragrance."
- Rainer Maria Rilke
You set yourself free as well, when you set that which you love free. It's the holding on and the fear of losing which causes us suffering.
Total surrender to the moment and the 'blink of an eye' you have together anyway, no control, no guarantees. Loss is also an illusion.