Courting the maiden

[Minyatur]

Minyatur, it sounds like you're the one who is always courted. You're the maiden and everyone else is the suitor. Same energy, different side.

Do you get taken advantage of much?

I don't get taken advantage of really.. although I have little desires for myself and tend to let others have their ways. Funny to Watch their struggle of disonant desires while you can go with just about anything any of them want.

"Always" is an overstatement, I always had little friends and never sought more.

Would you agree to say that within the play of mirror, this relates more to how one understand and feel about things, than definite actions that could be categorized.

Yes. Actions may be interpreted in varying ways, so intentions are where the polarity is on display. Thus the experience of this archetype is not relative in the sense that there is a resemblance between my experience of this archetype and yours. However, it is relative to the degree that we cannot understand each other's experience.

Relativity of experience is not an all or nothing affair. If it were, we couldn't have a conversation with each other about these things.

Well I did no deny that there are polarized relations between yourself and both yourself and others, which is what is the common ground to me.

I believe the perfectly balanced entity is able to seflessly do all of the things that are done, for no thing could be seen as with more or less love than any other. And the Creator cannot be seen as ever being plundered in this mindset, for the mechanisms of attraction dictates what meets in an harmony that cannot be broken. So while none of us have the perfect balance, each of us as a unique balance to work from and all of our interactions are with what required us to be as we were.

This is why forgiveness breaks the Wheel of karma, for grudges attract lessons to be learned while forgiveness/letting go simply opens oneself that things happened as they were meant to happen, and that all was ever well.