Session 31 - As a Gay Man, I think Ra's take on Homosexuality is idiotic

[Chandlersdad]

I did days ago.  I first wrote him a couple weeks ago with some questions. There has been no response. I have run into a few others who have written to him in the past and received only silence in return. He may focus on paying clients who come to him for counseling.  

Then your job's done. Scratch him off you list, and align yourself with those of like mind.

I will share one of my favourite quotes with you by C. Joybell C.

Previously, as I went through life, I was in full belief of the concept of "blending" (I was fully convinced that I as a person am completely capable of blending myself in the accordance of friendship, in order to give respect to the differences between people and in order for others to feel that I respect them). However, I have come to learn at this time in my life, that such an attitude is all good for a while, but then there does come a point where you must see and identify yourself; also see and identify others!

You have to be able to identify yourself as someone who is made happy by this and as someone who doesn't like that; then when you meet people, discern if those same things are the things that make them happy and if those same things are the things that they don't like, because at a point in time it becomes beneficial to you, to not waste time on blending in behalf of virtue but rather it becomes beneficial to you, to see yourself and go into the direction that makes you happy, taking people with you that are already going in that same direction and who also do not like the things that you do not like. At the end of the day, there are those paths in life, and you have to take one of them, you can't walk down all of them.

You are correct. Actually, I am not thinking about Scotty Boy at all except when I get new posts on this thread I created. Otherwise, I am enjoying my wild Los Angeles life style this Saturday.....washing clothes, clearing the dish washer, and taking a nap with my golden retriever. My husband is out on a contractor job. He is an electrician - very macho! LOL