Balancing Positive/Negative charges with their equal

[Glow]

How would one balance the emotional charge of missing someone. More accurately loss of unity consciousness.
I guess this is the one I still struggle with. A fellow soulgroup member started to awaken then went back to sleep.

When he awakened the feeling of seperation from otherselves disappeared. He is from my soulgroup so it was like returning home. Reunion with creator it felt like. When he went back to sleep the seperation felt more accute because I had lived in the flesh what it was like to not feel it.

I think this is the one I struggle with daily.

It occurred to me today I am not using this catalist appropriately.
There is no balance for this charge, I am not to balance it I'm to use it.
It can either stagnate my progress by leaving me fixated, or I can use it as fuel to further move toward unity with all.
Funny how sometimes typing it out for all to see brings the answer.
I'm going to assume it being part of some of you others selves consciousness even for a moment increased my call for help/guidance.
Thank you