Balancing Positive/Negative charges with their equal

[Jade]

How would one balance the emotional charge of missing someone. More accurately loss of unity consciousness.
I guess this is the one I still struggle with. A fellow soulgroup member started to awaken then went back to sleep.

When he awakened the feeling of seperation from otherselves disappeared. He is from my soulgroup so it was like returning home. Reunion with creator it felt like. When he went back to sleep the seperation felt more accute because I had lived in the flesh what it was like to not feel it.

I think this is the one I struggle with daily.

Maybe the balance is recognizing that there is no "loss" of unity consciousness, just a forgetting. It still exists to be tapped. Just because your friend has gone back asleep that doesn't mean forever - it also doesn't mean that you can't connect with anyone else - or the All. If you feel a real loss of connection with this person, I would still reach out to them in meditation, or dreams - none of us are ever truly apart. Being apart is the illusion.