About the "ultimate acceptance", I also think there is at some point a moment of perceiving that every moment of your path was fated, that you always played your given role and could've never done otherwise, that each moment was literally always perfect and that you now are fully aware of it, that there was never positive/negative but instead cause and effect to be experienced.
In this would lie awareness that every STO act always were STS in their inherent nature, that you served others for yourself and never truly for others (as they are an extension of yourself). That every STS act always had the inherent good will and innocence that is found in the STO path also. You would really become unable to truly dissociate polarities and instead perceive in others (or your past self) that they either are in a state of harmony with themselves or not. You also see that every moment cannot and should not be removed, that this would make Love incomplete and render it void, that everything has truly it's place.
I think this is known for a long time, but there's a moment of like truly feeling it.
In this would lie awareness that every STO act always were STS in their inherent nature, that you served others for yourself and never truly for others (as they are an extension of yourself). That every STS act always had the inherent good will and innocence that is found in the STO path also. You would really become unable to truly dissociate polarities and instead perceive in others (or your past self) that they either are in a state of harmony with themselves or not. You also see that every moment cannot and should not be removed, that this would make Love incomplete and render it void, that everything has truly it's place.
I think this is known for a long time, but there's a moment of like truly feeling it.