Wandering upon the affective terrain

[Nicholas]

So yeah, just feel it. This is why Ra says the proper thing for an entity to do is react in the moment, and then process it afterwards. Yeah, you might blow up on a few people, but eventually, sooner than later hopefully, you will realize the true folly and unimportance of the anger that you've been so afraid of experiencing, and that emotion will become a very rare friend indeed.

I really like this. One gripe I had with Ra on balancing was their comment, bolded here.

42.11 Questioner: How can an individual assess what energy centers within its being are activated and in no immediate need of further attention and which energy centers are not activated and are in need of immediate attention?

Ra: I am Ra. The thoughts of an entity, its feelings or emotions, and least of all its behavior are the signposts for the teaching/learning of self by self. In the analysis of one’s experiences of a diurnal cycle an entity may assess what it considers to be inappropriate thoughts, behaviors, feelings, and emotions.

The first time I read this I was like, "huh!? That's the most effective feedback I have ever got, certainly not the least!". As time moves on I have become more mindfull but initially I felt like a right "I need an intro to the beginners guide" if 'behaviour' is the least effective signpost. For me at least, my greatest insights have come from the manifestation of my own blockages, and thank goodness for being blessed with forgiving participants!